Miscarriage????

supposedly due on November,but god has better plan for me.Just had miscarried week ago, I’m so sad because I really planned for this pregnancy but ended up with miscarriage. Actually, my first visit to my doctor when I was 5 weeks 3 days and dr said he unable to see the yolk and fetus pole,maybe something not right ,from there I was paranoid and always negative with my pregnancy,thinking to much for blighted ovum ,ectopic pregnancy and etc. I experienced panic Attack as well, Sunday morning when I woke up and want to pass urine noticed got blood and turn to heavier bleeding and passing the clot,remind calm and see DR next day only,took 3 days for dr before diagnosed me as miscarriage.Gone thru many procedure within 3 days,blood workout to monitor HCG level, Pap smear and vaginal n abdomen scan. Lesson learned ,Please mama out there if experienced bleeding pls consult your Dr ASAP and always positive with pregnancy,I just realise maybe I think to much and also important for some Dr ,they really need give us positive vibes and not threatening us with other complications ,for me 5 weeks Mybe too early to see anything,same what other Dr said. Hopefully will recover back soon and get pregnant again. Even for few weeks only but I’m very happy to experience some pregnancy symptom .

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I can feel you. I found out I was preg 3days after I missed my menses. However, 1 week later (wk 5), I saw some blood when I wipe after I go to the toilet. I went to the doc and there was no sac. Doc says may be too early to see anything and took blood test. He also prescribe me progesterone but menses came 3 days later. Don’t blame urself for it. On a brighter side, I got preg 2 months later. With the past experience, I know what to expect . I told the gynae what happen before and he prescribe progesterone right from day1. And whenever I see spotting, I will go to see gynae asap. Never take any chance. I believe god has better plans for you and I believe you will get pregnant soon! Please rest well. Praying for you my dear.

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Hi sorry to hear that. When I visited my gynae at week 4 I cannot see anything totally too. My gynae prepared me with things like not growing at the correct place, may be ectopic etc. I too worried for a week until week 5 we can finally see a 0.5cm dot in the correct place but also can't confirm. I then waited for another long 2 weeks constantly worried too. Don't blame yourself for the anxiety. It's unavoidable. I also told myself not to worry but time to time I still think about it. Think of it as nature's way of self eliminating. Always remember a healthy baby and one fated with you will come your way. If it stays it stays. Try again when you are ready. Take care!

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I'm feel you... It's happen to me too... I take it lightly nvr see doc End up nvr see de heartbeat at all... Blood clot alotz..

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im so sorry. please take good care of yourself mummy.

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I’m so sorry :(