Is it selfish to my child to only want one child? Will my child feel lonely? I know from personal experience that it was quite comforting to have three siblings running around and constantly filling up the house with noise. But it has become so expensive to have children in Singapore! I feel I can handle the finances for one child. But to have more than that would be a burden... am I being selfish?

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I used to only want one child, until my second pregnancy comes along like a surprise recently! Honestly, my family is not very well off but we are shifting things around to prepare ourselves for the second baby. I dont think you’re being selfish, in fact very responsible and logical. However, i think youll have to speak to your wife in depth with regards to one or two kids! cheers

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Home Just Dads selfish child only want child child feel lonely i know from personal experience that was quite comforting have three siblings running around constantly filling house with noise but has become expensive have children in singapore i feel i handle finances child but have more than that burden i being selfish