Boyfie's EX
Seeking for advices fellow mumshiz. My boyfriend's ex girlfriend was wanting to be friends with me. She told me na if kung okay daw na maging friends kami and mag bonding, something like that. Nakausap ko naman sya once nung nagkita kami sa mall kasi na open naman sakin ng bf ko yung about sa kanila when I ask him kaya I know her naman. What should I'm gonna do? Hope y'all help :)
Siguro maging ok kayo is good.. but not to the extent na maging close friends kayo na may bonding,labas labas.... etc. You have to put boundaries.. since naging ex sya ng bf mo. You have to protect what is yours. I am not judging her naman but to be on the safe side lang.
wag mo pansinin 😤 ako nga binlock ko.. kasi nkikipag friends rin sakin kasi di sya kinakausap ni hubby ko kasi nga wala na sila matagal na.. tapos family na kmi.. kaso ayun, gusto ata nya na mkipag usap si hubby sa knya kaya sakin dumadaan 😤😤 asa pa sya 😤
hard no. if you become "friends" with her, she'll have access to your bf, exes should stay in the past and not be included in you or your bf's future. just tell her politely no if you are uncomfortable to do it. you are both adults. she should understand.
no and never. u dont want to start an issue by being friends with ex's gf. u might regret it. if u both were happy without her and just continue that simple life. u dont need additonal person on ur friend's list. hanap ka ibang maggng bago mong friend.
theres always a reason behind .. hindi sya makikipag friend sa inyo ng walang dahilan .. baka sya pa maging reason para maistress ka at mapahamak ang baby mo kaya kung ako sayo sis wag na .. much better lumagay kayo sa tahimik at isipin ang baby nyo
That'll be like planting land mines in your own backyard. Better be civil with her but as far as bonding and having heart to heart talks? I don't think so. Save yourself from future headaches. Don't keep her close but keep her at bay. 👍😉
It's a No no no for me momshie. Hahahaha! You might be surprised someday, she'll just wanted to get closer to you and your husband, then she'll take a huge advantage of your husband and her's closeness and will stab your back. NO NO NO MOMSHIE!
sakin no. for what diba? haha i mean, how come gusto pa nya mapalapit sayo? or worst baka ginagamit ka lang para mapalapit sya kay bf mo. para wala nalang maging issue in the future. okay na ung casual lang. but still nasa iyo parin yan sis :)
if it's me mumshie, a big no. better to aviod na maging close friend kayo ngayon palang para iwas problem in the future. okay na Yan na magkakilala kayo pero to be friends wag na your just asking a trouble in your heart sa future.
No po,, kasi yan ang magiging paraan nya para makalapit sa bf mo. And baka masira pa nya relationship nyo ng ex nya. Minsan may mga babae na ganyan ang ginagawang paraan. Nangyari na sakin yan pero d ako pumayag. Haha. Pa epal kasi sa buha
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