Roarrr!!! LO is 16mo. This morning, LO was whining for this and that and mum sternly said no to him. LO kept quiet seeking for help from grandpa, however grandpa feign ignorance. Mum, Dad and I agreed that we shouldnt give in to LO. Then LO turned to me to whine for things again, i said no firmly and he cried. Yet my mum went over to pass LO the things and sayang him. "Aiyo mummy scold u ar, kk grandma sayang, don cry" Wtf leh! So angry with mum's double standards!!!

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I won't say double standard. After all, in a household, there is bound to be an 'angel' and 'devil' My mil is one example. (i saw this thru cctv myself till now she thinks that i dont know) In front of me, she become the ultimate angel to the grandkids. But when im not around, she beats them with cane. So whenever im around, and my kids are behaving like monkeys, they would usually go to grandma there and hide.

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9y ago

Cox what i meant is to have standard understanding across so that there wont be different in teaching. Kids are smart lo, but awhile she says must teach, awhile when i teach she tried to be angel and went to "sow discord". Wth lo

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Home Just Mums roarrr lo 16mo morning lo was whining that mum sternly said him lo kept quiet seeking help from grandpa however grandpa feign ignorance mum dad i agreed that shouldnt give in lo then lo turned whine things again i said firmly cried yet mum went over pass lo things sayang him aiyo mummy scold ar kk grandma sayang don cry wtf leh angry with mum double standards