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1. First chance is okay, second chance is too much, third chance is may problema ka na. 2. Sa paulit ulit mong pagbibigay ng chance, paulit ulit din yan gagawa ng di maganda kasi alam niya na bibigyan mo sya ng unlimited chances. 3. Ikaw na din nag sabi na di nag work ang relationship niyo dahil sa ILANG THIRD PARTY ang dumaan. 4. At hindi lang yun, sinaktan ka oa physically, that's a red flag already. 5. Hindi rason ang pagiging lasing para manakit, sabi nga nila lumalabas ang totoo kapag lasing ang tao. 6. You had your fair share of why you both broke up, you acknowledged that, so you know what you're doing. 7. Just because you still have feelings for him and just because he is the father of your child eh babaliwalain mo na lahat ng ginawa niya sayo. Sorry for the word, pero katangahan na yan. 8. Think of your baby and your welfare first, before others. 9. At the end of the day, ikaw parin mag ddecide kung babalik ka pa sa ganyang klaseng relationship or magffocus ka muna sa baby mo. 10. I'm a single mom, and guess what that's the best decision I ever made. I hope you choose the right path for you. 🙂
If you will ask me on my stand in this kind of situation, I'd rather raise my baby alone. Dont get me wrong, Im really in to complete family, pero in your situatiom, he lied and cheated not once but twice and hurt you physically once. He all had the chance to prove himself na he's worthy of your forgiveness pero he kept on hurting you. We dont know kung ano pa yung possible na gawin nya in the future.. Pero Im not saying na he wont change kasi only God and time can tell.. You would also know if he has changed based on his actions.. Pero sa ngayon, if I were in your shoes, I would inform him about my pregnancy since he deserve to know but won't allow him to enter my life for now.
hays same na same tayo pero mas malala ung daddy ng baby ko, not once not twice na sinaktan ako physically buntis narin ako nun. may mga babae rin syang kachat. tas tambay lng sya inom, mobile games. unti unting nawala yung feelings ko. if he doesnt want to change for the sake of our child, and so be it. Alm mo ung pkiramdam na manhid kna sa lahat. Wag na pakamartyr mamsh.. hndi lang sa lalaki, relationships, or complete family mo mahahanap ung kasiyahan at kaligayahan kundi sa baby mo sa family. IF YOU GAVE HIM A CHANCE AGAIN AND HE DID IT AGAIN "YOU REALLY DESERVE WHAT YOU TOLERATE" 👉👈
Minsan para matuto tayo kailangan natin makarinig ng masasakit na salita. Sis, ilan party pa ba ang aabangan mo? single mom na pinalabas na ate, may bakla, may babae, baka tomboy na rin siguro isama na natin. The fact na sinaktan ka na physically kahit lasing pa yan e matakot ka na. Mag focus ka na lang sa sarili mo at kay baby. Kung nakaya ng iba mas kaya mo im sure. Magpakatatag ka lang para sa sarili mo at kay baby. You deserve someone better, not now, not very soon but in God's perfect time.
Hindi porket lasing eh mananakit na.hindi yun excused. Sonmahiging ganyan na lang? Kapag lasing eh mananakit? Pano ma lang magiging anak niyo? Physical abuse yon mamsh. Wag mo na habulin. Mental, physical, emotional at psychological abuse. Hay nako mamsh wag mo ring sabihin na namimilit yan makipagsex. It's a no no. Save yourself.
...hayaan mo lng ung ex mo..kung malaman nya na buntis ka at kusa syang bumalik sayo ibig sbhin mahal ka nya at ang baby nyo..pero kung hindi xa bumalik wag mo na sya habulin wala syang kwenta..may mas tunay n lalaki pang darating sa buhay nyo ni baby na rerespeto at mag mamahal sa inyo...be strong mommy...
ENOUGH na momsh. always remember na Hindi worth it Ang pakikipag balikan sa isang Tao na Wala Namang kwenta . at higit sa lahat Hindi ginagawa Yung way para Kayo mismo magkaayos . mas magandang palakihin mo Yung baby mo Ng ikaw Lang mag isa . kesa Naman may buo nga Kayong pamilya Hindi Naman masaya
if mahal mopa ...u can give another chance but make sure po na kaya nyang patunayan nagbago na sya...wag mo masyado madaliin..even scar theres another time to hile ...kung sa tingin nyo pong nagbago na sya at kaya na nyang baguhin ang anumang mali saknya i think u can give ur forgivenes
naku wag n. pagsisihan mo yan pag bumalik ka... d nga maganda second chance yan p na thrice k niloko. lolokohin k ule nyan. papahirapn mo lang sarili mo walang peace of mind sa ganyang lalake dapat iniiwan yang mga ganyan hanap sila ng babaeng deserved sa pagloloko nila.
Hello sis, I know its easy to say but its hard to do. pero isipin mo nlng self love and self respect mo then ska mo isipin if worth it pba bgyn ng another chance c ex mo.. respect and love urself first pra gnn din ggawin ng iba sau..
Myra Bautista