Just realised hubby has romantic messages with a girl who is his God-Sister. In the messages, hubby imply that marriage is boring as I always don't feel like doin sex and saying things like he should marry to the god- Sister who is also married but having problems now. Hubby even suspect our boy is not His and is 2 years after I gave birth. I am now 5 months pregnant again and what shall I do? To confront him? I have been feeling very tired since my first pregnancy till now and I usually don't initiates sex. Hubby still appears normal in front of me but lately has been complaining to me about no sex activities.

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Why not try to work towards improving the marriage and sex life. I won't use the confrontation method. I prefer try to talk it out and hear what he has to say. whenever something goes wrong in a marriage it is because something and someone's needs are no met.

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9y ago

I owned up and explained that why I did that the second time over 7 years is because I am unsecured. He refused to accept and insist he is correct and I am wrong. He says those conversations are just talks and no actions. Initially he refused to go for Counselling and claims that so Long as i accept not to check his phone anymore he will give me another chance for this marriage. But I refused. Eventually he accepted to go but mindset of going is to see how the counsellors say I am wrong and he

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Home Random Talk realised hubby has romantic messages with girl who god sister in messages hubby imply that marriage boring i always dont feel like doin sex saying things like should marry god sister who married but having problems nowhubby suspect boy not husband 2 years after i gave birth i now 5 months pregnant what shall i confront him i have been feeling very tired since first pregnancy till now i usually dont initiates sex hubby still appears normal in front but latel