Rant~ I really hate it when comes to my in laws side. They talk like everything is their business. Always ask my husband to do this and that. And our new bto they will say to my husband you should do this and don't do that.. They nv think that I am staying there too got the guts tell me la.. why tell my husband as if he living alone. All in laws like that ar? Irritating to the max. They say "Your house is big hor next time can rent out earn money" I m thinking my house is not a house is a Home don't like staying with stranger... I also not wanting them to live with me. Not my family members too. I don't want conflict...They will ask their sister daughter or my husband sister to come and stay over at my home. Why must come like they no house to stay. Really their face so thick. What can I do? My husband is abit hard to reject if they talk like that. And they don't come talk to me I can't reply, they talk to my husband. I just waiting for them to approach me.

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Dont buy mattresses or beds for the other rooms,just get what you need and minimally furnish it. Im not proud of it but I have been thru something similar to your situation. i dont want my husband to be ungrateful to his family because afterall they are his flesh and blood no matter how annoying they are so i indirectly initiate saving money so if no bed then people cant stay over right? Stay strong and dont let in law issues ruin your marriage. Focus on all the love and stay as positive as you can!

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