Just to rant: feeling super angry that fil is keeping mistress with a kid outside, earns a comfortably annual income of $60k yet keep saying he has no money and asked hub and sil to give $800/mth for allowance. Then the mistress and her daughter lived comfortably like taitai, buy branded, buy tonic, high tea, drive new car. Even the dog goes spa twice a week, eats salmon or branded dog food daily. ? Dont understand why hub and sil keep giving in to fil knowing the fact that he is spending on the mistress! Argh!!! Incorrigible!

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Hmmph, i think on the whole its your fil right to spend whatever he wants as its his money. Nevertheless, i do hear you and feel your frustrations. However, him asking for money could be because he feels that he is entitled to some money from the kids. Its the olden days concept id think.

9y ago

Haha i understand that he has all the right to spend his money. Even divorce he also ask sil for money to do so. The frustration is because he kept asking for more money to give it to the mistress to enjoy the luxury. He didnt spare a thought for us at all. Anyway worse is, he doesnt even know what is my child's name and has nv asked abt his well being let alone 1 sweet frm him. Older ppl would say that he is under "black magic" well, nth much i can do also, just to rant out my unhappiness. Than