Hello po, is it normal that my first sexual intercourse is i don't have any bleeding?. I had my first sex with my husband, I did not bleed. This seems to be a very private matter to me. Because my husband said, virginity is tested only when a woman bleeds during sex. I was a virgin when we met, but when we had sex that was my first time, i did not bleed. He was suspecting me I had it with another man, but I only had it with my husband.