Just want to share something..

Hello po, I just want to share something po, I want someone to talk to ☺️ Since April 2021 na approved na po visa nami and expected na lilipad ako sa US with my father around early next year sa 2022. Then suddenly, nabuntis ako, I just recently found out (unexpected po talaga). I am now 5 months pregnant. The thing is, I am confused if I would continue to go the US with the baby, kasi come to think of it, wala po talagang makakatulong sa akin mag alaga kay baby sa US kasi halos lahat ng family ko po nandito sa Philippines. Only my grandmother and my father will be there with me sa US po and matanda na po lola ko and father is going to work din po and hirap po manganak and mag alaga na walang katulong lalo na wala si boyfriend ko sa tabi ko baka magka Postpartum Depression po ako 😭. On the other hand, mas malaki po opportunities ni baby if sa US ko po siya ipanganak, magiging dual citizen po siya. I'm stuck po, I don't know what to do ☹️ the papers are already processing pero I'm having second thoughts. I just want to know if may nakatira ba dito sa US para po maka sabi sakin if worth it po ba talaga tumira sa US. By the way po, Arizona is the place where we would be staying.

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Tuloy mo yan sis. Sayang opportunity para sainyo ni baby. Madali mo naman makukuha si bf mo once na maging US citizen kna. Pero mahal lang ang magbuntis sa US ha. Yung asawa kasi ng brother-in-law ko buntis ngayon at nasa LA sila. Ultrasound lang niya plus consultation fee ay umabot na agad sa $2,000+ . Pero kung may insurance naman wala na daw binabayaran minsan or malaki din nadidiscount 😊 Yung mga gamit naman ng baby nahihingi lang daw doon. May mga nagpopost online tapos pipickup mo nalang. Mga almost brandnew at branded pa.

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Push through with it. Pag di mo ginawa, this will be a missed opportunity for your child. Unless well off kayo here in the Philippines na di naman magkakalayo yung magiging future niya if ever sa US siya pinanganak. Do this for the baby.