Stress after birth

People are being insensitive. I just gave birth and I’m struggling. I still can’t walk or sit properly and my in laws are saying I’m not doing much compared to others. They’re also saying the other in laws took only 3 days and they’re doing chores. Mil even said she wasn’t this weak then. I get 2 hours of sleep Everyday and no one is helping. I feel like I’m on my own and I’m breaking down. My husband is not being there for me as much as I want to. Am I being too sensitive? Am i taking Too Long to recover?

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You are not being sensitive. It is them who are insensitive annoying twats. 3 days?? Are you kidding me? I couldn't walk without extreme pain for more than a week. If they last time gave birth and can ride bicycle the nxt day then that's their grandmother's problem. Maybe try to be sarcastic with them "nicely." For your husband, you really need to talk to him heart to heart. Tell him how good things were when you both jz got married and that you need him to build you up back, to be in this, together, like a team. Together, always. In good or bad times. All the very best. You got this!

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