Any parents here have children and are without the help of either own parents or parent-In-laws? I'm in this situation. Hubby and I are on our own and I'm almost worn out liao. Use to have maid but she stole my things and I sent her back. After that have phobia having maid cos previous maid really gives me a lot of prob. My mom's two maids also created a lot of prob. So I have a bad bad phobia about getting a maid. I have two kids aged 5 and 10 months old. I'm a working mom too. Day time kids go to childcare and infant care. Otherwise, we handle on our own and I feel very worn out. Anybody same situation as me? Can share how u cope?

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Maybe start with a part time helper for chores, and order a tingkat service for food. It will lighten your load considerably already. If you don't like strangers, then it's better you get a babysitter from an agency instead of classified ads. It's not foolproof but at least SOMEONE has done the screening. From experience, it isn't easy to find one anyway.

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Home Just Mums parents have children without help either own parents parent in laws im in situation hubby i own im almost worn out liao use have maid but stole things i sent back after that have phobia having maid cos previous maid really gives lot prob mom two maids created lot prob i have bad bad phobia about getting maid i have two kids aged 5 10 months old im working mom too day time kids go childcare infant care otherwise handle own i feel very w