Paano ko ba sasabihin sa partner ko na hindi ako magiging komportable kapag nagstay sa amin ang papa niya once bumukod kami? Alam ko it will help us cut costs kasi eventually yung ginagastos nya sa bahay nila ibibigay nya na lang sa amin. Pero kasi di ba iba parin kapag we just live on our own. What do you think?

As filipinos it's really part of our culture because of close family ties but now a days mas maganda din isipin natin ang ating pamilya lalo na if financial ang pag uusapan . Shempre iba narin talaga pag may bumukod ka walang nangingialam sayo wala kang ibang iisipin kung di ang pamilya mo lang magiging focus ka kung baga . Well explain mo lang sa asawa mo ng maayos na kahit na bumukod kayo di parin naman ninyo pababayaan ang ama nya susuportaham nyo padin sya lalo na sa pinancial . Best way is to communicate it well and magkakaintindihan lalo na.

You just have to be honest to your husband. Explain to him that you want to raise your own family among yourselves. Explain the pros and cons, I agree with Joey. And I think any husband would understand naman if you have explained your points clearly. You husband knows or must know that you are now his priority. He will still have time with his biological family but let him realize that it will be healthy if kayo-kayo lang mismo mgestablish ng foundation since you are just starting to build your family.

Be honest to your husband and tell him that you are not comfortable sa ganyang setup and i-open up mo din na mawawala yung privacy ninyong mag asawa. Mahihirapan kayong pag usapan ang mga sensitive na bagay kapag may ibang tao sa bahay nyo. Maaring hindi din maiwasan ang kampihan kapag may pagtatalunan kayong dalawa.

Explain it objectively. You can present ang mga pros and cons if sa inyo nakatira ang papa niya. Sa cons mo isama ang mga reasons bakit hindi ka comfortable, and ipakita mo din ang mga pros para alam ng husband mo na pinag-isipan mo naman itong mabuti at hindi lang dahil sa ayaw mo na sa inyo siya tumira.

Tell him how you feel. Discuss with him your goals as husband and wife kasi minsan sa sobrang attachment din sa biological family, nakakalimutan ung plans nyo as a family. Let him know that you can still be there for his father but you want to set limitations for your privacy as a family.

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If for a season lang baka pwede pero kung for the long haul ibang case naman yun or kung wala na talagang matutuluyan yung dad nya. You have to tell him straight anu stand mo.