Paano ko ba sasabihin sa partner ko na hindi ako magiging komportable kapag nagstay sa amin ang papa niya once bumukod kami? Alam ko it will help us cut costs kasi eventually yung ginagastos nya sa bahay nila ibibigay nya na lang sa amin. Pero kasi di ba iba parin kapag we just live on our own. What do you think?

You just have to be honest to your husband. Explain to him that you want to raise your own family among yourselves. Explain the pros and cons, I agree with Joey. And I think any husband would understand naman if you have explained your points clearly. You husband knows or must know that you are now his priority. He will still have time with his biological family but let him realize that it will be healthy if kayo-kayo lang mismo mgestablish ng foundation since you are just starting to build your family.