My Two Cents

worst nga rin sakin sis, I almost decided to stop using TAP. It was my Birthday and I posted something here, I shared my pregnancy experience and in my post was all positivity lang and inserted a picture of me and my hubby celebrating my birthday (kasi b.day ko din nun) na kami lang dalawa which was sad kasi di kami maka uwi and celebrate it with my family kasi ECQ nun. I shared how I felt especially na preggy ako. I shared it here sa TAP coz I thought na mas maraming makakaintindi sayo kasi most dito preggy din. Ending binash ako ng napakaraming anonymous. Ang arti ko raw, di namn daw ako maganda, feelingang frog daw ako, etc. andami masasakit na salita na 1st time ko nakareceive ng nga ganun comments. I was so sad talaga and naawa ko sa hubby ko, nadamay pa kasi kasama ko xa sa picture. Ang bait bait ng hubby ko tas binash rin nila. Grabi tong mga trolls na to. Parang hindi mga nanay. I mean, if you want to teach your kid to be a good person, diba dapat maging good example tayo? haist. Anyway, I've learned, after that incident I did not post anymore here. I used this nlang to monitor qng ilang weeks na ang tyan ko hehe. Sana e removed nalang ang anonymous na option, ina abuse lang kasi ng iba. 😒

I experienced that from an anonymous user din. I just responded to her question about marriage requirements. She told me nagmamarunong dw ako and made me feel na parang hndi ko alam ang sinasabi ko. Kaya ko namention na I work at the Judiciary where civil marriages are being held to prove na i know what im talking about. Her response was "epal" dw ako and shes not interested to my preaching. Know what mommy, naawa ako sa kanya. Shes so bitter about life. Psychologically kasi, it reveals something about her character and the things she went through. Kaya maawa nlg tauo sa mga ganyan. Youre right not to be affected again. One stress is enough. Its not about us, its about them. Its wise not to ALLOW them ruin our lives which will eventually affect our effectiveness as mother. Good thing about apps like this, our power is in our fingertips. We will just unfollow them and push the "dont show to me this again" button. Life and motherhood is beautiful mommy. Its just too precious and valuable just be besmirched and ruined by unscrupulous people. God bless us

nasa Public app tayo kaya normal lang na may anonymous kahit ako gumagamit kc maraming mean dito, hinde kc natin maplease ang lahat dito kaya huwag nalang etake seriously ang comment ng iba, malay natin ganyan kinalakihan niya..kung ikaw ay may manners maging responsible ka sa mga sinasabi mo at kung may point naman din ung commenters kahit masakit ung salita niya take it us constructive criticism. kung nagbibigay sayo ng stress itong app pwede naman mag-un install hinde kc natin pwede turuan ang iba dahil iba iba talaga tayo.

Sis, ndi ntn mapipigilan un pag comment ng iba since apps ito for all. Wag knlng magpaka stress. Iba iba ksi ugali ng mga tao.. may na encounter din aq na ganyan anonymous, masipag sya sagutin mga comment ko sumagot aq kso naawa aq sknya ksi ndi nya kya i reveal un sarili nya hnggang pagtatago nlng sya so ndi knlng pinag aksayahn ng time... hyaan mo nlng siya, ang goal lng nmn natin dto i share xperience ntn pra makatulong sa mga ftm dto...

The only way to win against those kind of people is to IGNORE. 😊 Papansin yan. Kapag pinakita mo apektado ka, ikaw ang talo. Daming ganyan dito. Pero ni minsan di ako nag attempt pumatol or makipagsagutan. As in never pa ako may nireplyan na ganyang tao dito sa group na to. Aksaya sa oras. Kaya better ignore at wag paapekto.

Is that your real name? Maybe she stalks your profile not just here but also on facebook.. Or she's maybe insecure, she doesn't have a good thoughts to share with others as yours!🤭 Don't mind it! Your mental health and inner peace is more important than that of a @#

Makikita mo po sa notification mo kung anong name ni anonymous kahit nakaanonymous pa sya pag nagreply sya sayo mommy. Di po ba nag aappear?? Anyway, report nyo na lang po. Dapat good vibes lang dito at dapat di hinahayaan yang mga ganyan.

Bobo siguro yan kaya ganyan maka comment Kaya ako nag a-anonymous dahil feeling ko may mga ganyan walang laman ang utak, eh Masipag din ako sumagot 😂 Wag mo nang pansinin yan. Wala lang alam yan kaya ganyan mag cocomment 😂😂😂

Grabe naman yang mga yan sis.. nandito tayo para tumulong at sumagot sa questions ng mga members dito based sa mga experiences natin.. hayaan mo sila.. ang importante nakakatulong ka sa mga members dito..😊

Hayaan mo na, gusto kasi nila sila ang sumagot sa tanong ng ibang mommies. Sasagot sila sa 'nakakainsultong sagot or tanong'. Yung feeling nila helpful yung ginagawa nila. Kasi feeling magaling sila. Haha