My Two Cents

NOTE: Long Post Ahead I'm personally experiencing "harassment". Not physical, pero mental harassment from a "troll"/"anonymous" account dito sa theAsianparent App natin. I don't know kung nataon na sensitive ako nung nabasa ko yung comments nya, or sadyang hindi lang maganda yung goal nya. Minsan it takes a toll sakin dahil nasstress ako kakaisip kung ano ba ang nagawa/nasabi ko para maging ganun sya sakin (kung naunahan ko ba sya sa pag sagot sa mga unanswered questions or what 😂), kaya medyo nagddrop ang milk supply ko. (See how stress affects your supply, kaya as much as possible wag ma stress) I am a strong person in a way, kaya medyo okay lang sakin yung pagiging sarcastic at pagquestion ng troll saakin. Pero iniisip ko din, paano kapag meron pang ibang nakakaexperience neto na hindi ganun kalakas, mas mahirap na naman. To the parents who are experiencing things like me, wag natin silang hayaan na bigyan tayo ng paulit-ulit na stress. Ma stress tayo, pero isang beses lang. Once is enough sabi nga nila. As long as alam mo na wala ka naman sinasabi na hindi maganda, wag na silang pansinin. To the trolls/anonymous users, please stop harassing. Kung wala kayong mabuting masasabi, tahimik nalang. Kung may nasabi sa inyo na hindi niyo nagustuhan, sabihin ninyo nang hindi nagtatago sa "anonymous" feature. Hindi ninyo alam ang epekto ng mga ginagawa ninyo. Again, PLEASE STOP. This is a great community, it helps in so much ways. Please wag naman po kayong maghasik ng lagim ninyo. 😅 PS. Nasa baba ang screenshot ng comment ng troll. Pinagdadasal ko na sya na sana maliwanagan sya sa mga ginagawa niya. PPS. Diba, nastress ako dahil jan. How silly of me. 😂 PPPS. Awan biyang kun dita, mabwisit nak dita nga troll. 😂

My Two Cents
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I experienced that from an anonymous user din. I just responded to her question about marriage requirements. She told me nagmamarunong dw ako and made me feel na parang hndi ko alam ang sinasabi ko. Kaya ko namention na I work at the Judiciary where civil marriages are being held to prove na i know what im talking about. Her response was "epal" dw ako and shes not interested to my preaching. Know what mommy, naawa ako sa kanya. Shes so bitter about life. Psychologically kasi, it reveals something about her character and the things she went through. Kaya maawa nlg tauo sa mga ganyan. Youre right not to be affected again. One stress is enough. Its not about us, its about them. Its wise not to ALLOW them ruin our lives which will eventually affect our effectiveness as mother. Good thing about apps like this, our power is in our fingertips. We will just unfollow them and push the "dont show to me this again" button. Life and motherhood is beautiful mommy. Its just too precious and valuable just be besmirched and ruined by unscrupulous people. God bless us

Magbasa pa
5y ago

Yes mommy. We must not let them get the best of us kumbaga. God Bless po mommy! ❤