Tama naman yung pinapalo natin sila kapag nag didisiplina tayo... it's biblical. Ngunit dapat gawin natin yun ng hindi tayo galit, kasi kapag namalo tayo at galit tayo may tendency na magiging violent tayo at nararamdaman yun ng mga bata. We should explain it to our kids bkit natin sila pinalo at dapat after mapalo kinakausap natin sla at pinaparamdam natin sa kanila na mahal na mahal ntin sila regardless of who they are and what we can and cant do.