Not LO related, LIP-related post

need ur thoughts mga mamsh. Live in kami ni partner since 2019. May ex si hubby for 8 yrs back in the province na syempre super familiar na sa buong angkan nya. Namatay yung parent ni hubby and as expected, nandun sa girl to pay respect. They r friends hanggang ngayon, may gc sila and all as in active friends. I dont mind kasi married na si girl with 1 child. Maraming eksena si girl dun sa wake ng parent ni LIP and still, i dont mind. She's super close with everyone in the family and i don't mind kasi naman 8 years diba? Di ako jealous type and I can confidently say na i have an open mind to almost everything. They even had numerous close body contacts coz of random things, and still, i never felt anything. This girl has a warm personality kaya everyone in the family is very welcoming talaga sa kanya. She's nice to me too. So okay lahat, nalibing si in-law and the following day we'll be going back home (we dont stay in the province). It was then that he accidentally called me his ex's name in front of his siblings and some relatives. And he was like deadma. Not even sorry. Okay, so a friend told me na it's no biggie kasi it happens talaga. On my part, it's the first time and I was(and still) thinking na he got distracted dahil sa ilang beses silang nag meet ng ex nya this time. it's been days and I'm giving him (not so) silent treatment. Kahit anong convince ko sa sarili ko, i still feel bad about the incident. OA bako?

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Kala ko tapos na. lol. Ngayon ko lang nalaman, as in just now, na yung video tribute para kay parent in law, si ex pala gumawa and ang daming pics na kasama sya, di man lang humingi ng pics na kasama kami ng mga junakis. Medyo nagbago tuloy tingin ko sa kanya, ever since kasi medyo friendly talaga ang approach namin. I don't know how to react na pag nagkita uli kami, expressive kasi yung mukha (according to everyone I've met) di ako marunong magtago ng emotions mga mamsh. Mixed thoughts na ko sa kanya ngayon.

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2y ago

Hay naku, mommy, what do you expect? Sa totoo lng, I can't speak for your hubby's action, pero as a woman, hindi ko maintindihan yung ex. I mean, either may agenda talaga si ex or she's so innocent and clueless na hindi nya alam na may mali sa ginagawa nya. Kasi ako, may pagka-boyish ako at malapit talaga loob sa mga guy friends ko, pero kapag alam kong taken na yung guy, or kapag feeling ko may konting feelings sya sa akin, I immediately back off. I become more mindful to make sure my actions are not misinterpreted. Noon yun na single pa ko so even more nung nagka-boyfriend/ asawa na ako, kahit na normal lng sa akin ang mang-akbay ng lalaki, hindi ko na ginagawa. Kilala ko rin at kaibigan ko mga exes ng hubby ko (we were all friends before any romances were formed), at may mga kanya-kanyang asawa na rin kami pero we're all friendly and civil lang. No more, no less. Considering na married na rin si ex ni hubby mo, even more reason na dapat dumidistansya na sya 🤷‍♀️