Not LO related, LIP-related post

need ur thoughts mga mamsh. Live in kami ni partner since 2019. May ex si hubby for 8 yrs back in the province na syempre super familiar na sa buong angkan nya. Namatay yung parent ni hubby and as expected, nandun sa girl to pay respect. They r friends hanggang ngayon, may gc sila and all as in active friends. I dont mind kasi married na si girl with 1 child. Maraming eksena si girl dun sa wake ng parent ni LIP and still, i dont mind. She's super close with everyone in the family and i don't mind kasi naman 8 years diba? Di ako jealous type and I can confidently say na i have an open mind to almost everything. They even had numerous close body contacts coz of random things, and still, i never felt anything. This girl has a warm personality kaya everyone in the family is very welcoming talaga sa kanya. She's nice to me too. So okay lahat, nalibing si in-law and the following day we'll be going back home (we dont stay in the province). It was then that he accidentally called me his ex's name in front of his siblings and some relatives. And he was like deadma. Not even sorry. Okay, so a friend told me na it's no biggie kasi it happens talaga. On my part, it's the first time and I was(and still) thinking na he got distracted dahil sa ilang beses silang nag meet ng ex nya this time. it's been days and I'm giving him (not so) silent treatment. Kahit anong convince ko sa sarili ko, i still feel bad about the incident. OA bako?

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Skl. This EX issue also happened to me. 8 yrs din sila ni LIP. Nung buntis ako I found out na yung sister ni LIP was talking to her again samantalang ako di makamusta which tinake ko personally lalo at sinira siraan nya na sakin yang EX ng kuya nya. Also Knowing na mga kunsintidor sila pati mother nya. I did not let it slide. Umabot kami sa point na nagkagulo kami but ended up pinagtanggol ng mom nya yung ex na kesyo “di na dapat magselos kasi ex na” “nasanay lang siguro si kwan kasi matagal sila” “nag uusap lang naman anong masama” still a NO! They can’t understand that anything from the past that’s still on the table is so disrespectful. Also binibigyan nila ng window si EX na magkaron parin ng puwang para makalapit kay LIP. We decided to cut them off (his sister and Mom) MAS MASAYA KAMI NGAYON. MAS MAGAAN BUHAY NAMIN.

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