My son's nanny will get married in the next 2 months. Do you think i'd better give her bonus or just wedding gift? Which one is more appropriate?

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I'd do both just bc I, myself, love receiving gifts bc they hold a sentimental value. I wouldn't get anything expensive, just like a picture frame with a theme of a wedding, or a set of 2 tea cups for "hubby" and "wifey", something like that. And $ of course would be appreciated too.

If I were a newly wed, I'd prefer money over anything else. Same goes for your son's nanny. It can go towards her wedding expenses, future home and family. Money is the practical choice and I'm sure it'll be much appreciated :)

I feel that an ang bao would be a better choice because then she could use the money for her family which was why she left them in the first place, to earn money for them.

You can give it both a simple gift which she can keep as token from you + bonus a generous employer will forever be remembered.....

For me, I feel giving her an ang bao will be more practical, for her to buy the things that she really need.

Bonus because it will help her alot or both if you by the means

Bonus - money can come a long way when people are starting a new journey

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I think money would be more practical unless you know what she likes(:

Bonus! She can do whatever she wants with it