My inlaws have been constantly commenting on planning a child. Sometimes they bring it up indirectly in front of other relatives also, it has become really frustrating. Me and my husband have talked on this and we want to wait for some time. Moreover, I think this is totally both of our's decision and nobody else's. How should I deal with my inlaws' incessant questioning? Please help!

Family planning concerns you and your husband alone, since you both are the main foundation in building your own. So do not be bothered by what other people will say, be it your in-laws or even friends in general. Yes, you can hear all of their advices and comments but in the end, it will be all up to you and your husband. What you can do is to explain to them that you understand the excitement of having a baby but you also understand the things you need to prepare--in all aspects--before having one. They should be able to understand you both in time. After all, they're husband&wife turned parents, too.