My helper (FDW) is pretty awesome. She's been here for less than a year, but takes good initiatives and a lot of care for my twin babies. We are blessed to have such a good helper. How should I give her a little reward? What you guys think?

I love my helper too and here are some ideas: (1) we listen to her needs and I try to chat with her daily .. Sometimes they need someone to chit chat to:: (2) cover cost of toiletries , buy books and storybooks for her (3) bring her out for a movie My helper doesn't want off days so on weekends that we don't need her, we let her watch a movie of her choice , popcorn too (4) tell her that you care for her family and will help her to Ensure their needs met too. I told her if she needs money ( when her loan was being paid) to borrow first etc, we are flexible Its been 8 months n I think open communication is key to making them happy.