My grandma maid of 3 years has a bf. We saw her holding hands with an man at orchard. How should we approach this?

Don't think it's a concern at all, only if starts disrupting her work in our home. Agree with Stephanie about no meeting during work, excessive calls or bringing the boyfriend over during work time or when we're not around in the house. If it's on her off day, she has every right to a social life.