My first boyfriend recently just added me on Facebook. And as I was scrolling through his timeliness looking at his pictures, I felt all fuzzy inside and very tempted to contact him and ask him out for coffee. He has a girlfriend now and I'm married with kids. What do you think? No harm right?

What is the point in contacting? To reminisce and recall how wonderful your life was with him? Then why are you not with him now? I think it is not wise. I am no longer in contact with any of my exes as I do not see a need to anymore. Do not land yourself in such a situation where your heart gets mess up once again by him. He's doing well? Good for him. So are you! So just move on and be contented with your happy little family and leave him to be as well.