My ex hubby has requested for more days with our daughter. She goes stays over with him one night a week. I am not comfortable with that. Can I say no? What happens if he insists?

You have known your ex well, so if you trust him with your daughter then you can send her. But as you mentioned that you are not comfortable with it, then I think you should say no. I don't know but personally I am very skeptical, and had I been in your position I would have to think very hard to make the final decision. And it would have entirely depended upon how much I trust him with my daughter. If I had full faith in him and trust that my daughter would be safe with him as much as she is with me only then I would have allowed him to take her. So, more than anyone else you will have to ask yourself this question that how safe you feel your daughter would be with him. And whatever will be your answer would reflect in your decision. a