My ex hubby has requested for more days with our daughter. She goes stays over with him one night a week. I am not comfortable with that. Can I say no? What happens if he insists?

L̳i̳f̳e̳ ̳h̳a̳s̳ ̳t̳a̳u̳g̳h̳t̳ ̳m̳e̳ ̳s̳o̳ ̳m̳a̳n̳y̳ ̳l̳e̳s̳s̳o̳n̳s̳.̳ ̳N̳o̳ ̳m̳a̳t̳t̳e̳r̳ ̳h̳o̳w̳ ̳g̳o̳o̳d̳,̳ ̳h̳u̳m̳b̳l̳e̳ ̳a̳n̳d̳ ̳h̳o̳n̳e̳s̳t̳ ̳y̳o̳u̳ ̳a̳r̳e̳ ̳t̳o̳ ̳t̳h̳e̳m̳ ̳t̳h̳a̳t̳ ̳d̳o̳e̳s̳n̳’̳t̳ ̳m̳e̳a̳n̳ ̳t̳h̳a̳t̳ ̳t̳h̳e̳y̳ ̳w̳i̳l̳l̳ ̳t̳r̳e̳a̳t̳ ̳y̳o̳u̳ ̳t̳h̳e̳ ̳s̳a̳m̳e̳ ̳w̳a̳y̳.̳ ̳I̳ ̳m̳a̳r̳r̳i̳e̳d̳ ̳m̳y̳ ̳h̳u̳s̳b̳a̳n̳d̳ ̳f̳o̳r̳ ̳a̳l̳m̳o̳s̳t̳ ̳f̳i̳v̳e̳ ̳y̳e̳a̳r̳s̳ ̳n̳o̳w̳ ̳w̳i̳t̳h̳ ̳n̳o̳ ̳i̳d̳e̳a̳ ̳t̳h̳a̳t̳ ̳h̳e̳ ̳w̳a̳s̳ ̳c̳h̳e̳a̳t̳i̳n̳g̳ ̳o̳n̳ ̳m̳e̳.̳ ̳I̳ ̳n̳o̳t̳i̳c̳e̳d̳ ̳s̳o̳m̳e̳ ̳c̳h̳a̳n̳g̳e̳s̳ ̳i̳n̳ ̳h̳i̳s̳ ̳c̳h̳a̳r̳a̳c̳t̳e̳r̳ ̳a̳n̳d̳ ̳I̳ ̳d̳e̳c̳i̳d̳e̳d̳ ̳t̳o̳ ̳c̳o̳n̳f̳i̳d̳e̳ ̳i̳n̳ ̳a̳ ̳f̳r̳i̳e̳n̳d̳ ̳w̳h̳o̳ ̳i̳n̳t̳r̳o̳d̳u̳c̳e̳d̳ ̳m̳e̳ ̳t̳o̳ ̳a̳ ̳h̳a̳c̳k̳e̳r̳ ̳w̳h̳o̳s̳e̳ ̳n̳a̳m̳e̳ ̳i̳s̳ ̳T̳h̳o̳m̳a̳s̳.̳ ̳T̳h̳i̳s̳ ̳g̳u̳y̳ ̳d̳i̳d̳ ̳a̳ ̳w̳o̳n̳d̳e̳r̳f̳u̳l̳ ̳a̳n̳d̳ ̳p̳e̳r̳f̳e̳c̳t̳ ̳j̳o̳b̳ ̳f̳o̳r̳ ̳m̳e̳ ̳b̳y̳ ̳h̳a̳c̳k̳i̳n̳g̳ ̳h̳i̳s̳ ̳p̳h̳o̳n̳e̳ ̳c̳a̳l̳l̳ ̳l̳o̳g̳,̳ ̳f̳a̳c̳e̳b̳o̳o̳k̳ ̳m̳e̳s̳s̳e̳n̳g̳e̳r̳ ̳m̳e̳s̳s̳a̳g̳e̳s̳,̳ ̳p̳h̳o̳n̳e̳ ̳m̳e̳s̳s̳a̳g̳e̳s̳,̳ ̳w̳h̳a̳t̳s̳a̳p̳p̳,̳ ̳S̳k̳y̳p̳e̳,̳ ̳d̳a̳t̳a̳b̳a̳s̳e̳ ̳a̳n̳d̳ ̳s̳o̳ ̳o̳n̳.̳ C̳L̳O̳U̳D̳G̳E̳E̳K̳S̳Y̳N̳C̳@̳G̳M̳A̳I̳L̳.̳C̳O̳M̳