Any mummy took sole custody(with supervised visitation) of your child without any maintenance?? How you manage your life with your lo. I have prepared a draft deed of separation. Now my husband alot of things he doesnt agree to it. I will be seeing my lawyer again next week to revised n prepare again. This mother fucker thinks its easy. I have been paying alot if $. I thank god i hv savings. My divource only takes place next year. My marriage only 2 years. My husband whom is having affair with his mistress. I have come to conclusion not to be with him whom has physically abuse me. Dilema situations everyday scolding me vad words n so on. He doesnt give a damm about my lo. I am strong because i have family support. Sick with such man on this earth.

For supervised access, you need to prove that he is dangerous to your child, not yourself. Your lawyer might ask you to file for PPO but the burden of proof is on you. All in All, I suspect this marriage is gone and a lot of acrimony both parties but that does not neccessary meant that either parties don't love the child of the marriage. A lot of times separation and shared care and control help reduce acrimony with the passage of time. Parties only see eachother twice a week during handover. This pointing of knife thing is very funny, I read cases where the husband is cutting fruits then the wife and him have an arguement. The wife wrote in the affidavit that they had an altercation and the husband is holding a knife and she felt threatened. Considerating that I am man and 1 year away from divorce and fought closed to 8 months for shared care and control. I believe both me and wife have spent close to $40K in legal fees. My advise is don't fight just sit down and come up