Sex after being a mother

Hey Mummies! I'm a FTM who delivered in Nov 2019. Since then, I'm just so tired from taking care of baby, doing housework and work stuff. Sex is definitely the last thing I think of. My husband has been bringing up then we haven't had sex for so many months. But I just feel so dry and totally no mood for it. Don't even feel like being intimate or being touched. On the other hand, I feel guilty for not satisfying his desire too. Sigh, any mummies feel this way too? How long after delivery did you have sex again?

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Exactly in the same shoe as u. So tired plus I breastfeed my baby. Didn’t bother to wear sexy or dress nice cause even when go out, I need to wear the same boring nursing tops/ clothes that is ez for me to bf baby. Hah.. hubby and I didn’t spoke about it yet too. But I noticed he is surfing porn more than usual. Dk if he alr gave up on me or what.... haiz.. but really no mood and I am always worrying about my baby

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