Ranting abt my husband

Hi mummies. My husband asks if he can go on a volunteer trip with his company committee to Batam for 1 night at the end of the year. By then, I would have delivered my baby for less than a month. Do you think its right that he goes? Its not impt at all, but he wants to go. I felt quite upset abt it, like he is throwing his responsibilities at me just to have fun. Seems like he have no idea the amt of ‘work’ that needs to be done with a baby.

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no, I will reject the husband trip, coz during the first few months of newborn , there are so many things to adapt and do around the newborn, it's too overwhelming for the new mum, she will need all the support tat she can get. if the mum is alone taking care of baby, sometimes she might not even have time to go washroom or bath. In addition, new mum need to recover her own health from the child birth, especially during the first 2 months after childbirth.

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