BIL being weird

Hi mummies any one have brother in laws that live with you? Currently am living with my in laws and my BIL also. i noticed everytime when my MIL and only my MIL change my baby girl diapers HE WILL ALWAYS GO AND SEE. He also very into giving my daughter baths. shes already 17months and understands. as a women, i think is not right. it makes me uncomfortable and weirded out. Am i overthinking???

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No...! That's already a red flag! Best to get your child away from him. Better be safe then sorry. Why not starting from now on, you bath & change your child's diaper in your room.

5y ago

Best to talk to your husband or mil about it. Tell her to shower your child with the door close and don't let anyone else shower her and to also change the diaper with the door close. Nowadays, too many pedophiles. Sometimes you can't even trust your own family members. Always be extra cautious especially you've already seen the red flags.