Most effective tips in weaning your toddlers?

I've read that it helps to stop offering them as much as possible and be ready to give replacements in case they ask, like a snack or a drink. Distraction may also do. You can check this link for further read http://sleeplady.com/parenting/7-tips-to-gently-wean-your-breastfeeding-toddler/

You might just want to substitute breastmilk with formula. Offer it in the most breast-like bottle you can ever find, if there is such.