Red flag???

Hey mom I’m a single mom and I’m dating someone and who has an drug problems…we had a fight recently and he started getting rlly pissed off and slamming the door but he didn’t hit me or shout at me he just seem really angry and I have been trying to change him..he started hitting himself and crying and screaming I got really scared because my previous rs with the baby father he hit me…I’m not sure if I shoujd leave. And it’s affecting my mental health but I want my baby to be safe and I do set boundaries with him and my baby.

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just leave. a leopard will never change its spot. I have a friend my hubby friend too. last time in out prison because of drugs and his family kick him out of home. then from last time till now no hse to stay. 30plus yo still cnt think. I feel you shouldn't waste your time on this kind of person. what if he take drugs alr and lose his mind one day then hurt u and your lo? or can even kill u both? now still got chance leave.

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Run, as far as you can. You have a kid, and it's your responsibility to protect your child and keep your child safe. People who do drugs are not good for you nor your child. Unless you want a life of misery for yourself and your kid, leave the guy. The fact that you're asking for opinions here shows that you already know that this guy is problematic and not good for you. Have the strength as a mother to leave him.

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Sis, run. Faste. Now. It will affect your child and his/her childhood too and you really wouldnt want that. Cause itll also affect their upbringing and future. Theres still wayyyyy more men out there clean from all these trust me. Do yourself a favour and love yourself even more

As a daughter of a drug abuser, my advise is leave. Not worth it. Dont waste your youth and time on drug abusers & don’t even think of “changing him”.

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Thats abuse hands down. Figure out a plan to leave safely and notify people around u in case anything happens.

leave cox u could never change anyone except for yourself.. but if u still wanne stay that all up to u..

leave lol. u should never try to change someone, u will never be the person to change him.