MIL

As a mom, how would you feel if someone (that someone is a family member) says " walang kwenta namang kausap tong baby na to." to your four month old baby, just because he is not giving his attention to the video chat? For pete's sake, my son is very curious looking at his environment, as a baby, he still have divided attention. He will look at the people or things that will catch or attract his attention. Worst, his father, told me as i confronted him, why does his mom say such thing and that im hurt of her words, "lahat na lang pinapansin mo, lahat na lang minamasama mo, kitnam, badtrip." " kung ganyan lang din naman di wag mo na siyang ipakita, wag mo na sagutin tawag nila." the funniest thing he said when I ask him if he's not hurt that his mom called his son 'walang kwenta', "totoo naman, iba iba naman kasi tinitignan niya." Days before this event happend, we talked about it. He said he understand that our baby has divided attention. Pero ganoon pa rin nangyari. He took side with his mom. Ako at ang anak na namin ang pamilya niya, pero yung support, nasa totoong pamilya niya (his mom), natatakot tuloy ako kapag lumipat kami sa compound nila, kapag naapi kami ng anak ko, sino papanigan niya? Hindi lang yan ang mga masasakit na salitang binitawan ng mom niya patungkol sa anak ko.