Do I have the rights to feel annoyed/Angry?

Question

MIL signed my boy up for a trail music class and only informing me, the mother, only a few days before the class. Had intention to bring my kids back to my parents place though i didnt mention it to her. But She couldve ask us first before signing up for any activities since it is our child... you get what I mean? Its respect right... I would say that my MIL is aggressively doting on her grandchild so much that it looks like shes the mom instead. But she dont finds that she is doing so...

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I wld get annoyed too if my MIL or even my mom enrolled my son in a class without asking me first. While her intention is good, she shld have at least got ur and ur hubby's opinion first since different parents have different interests in mind for their kids. Try to speak to ur hubby abt your grievances so tt he can talk to his mother abt it and to avoid such thing from happening again. It may cause further tension if u were to confront her directly. Anw since this has happened, you may want to just let ur boy go for the trial class first so tt ur MIL cld see tt u actually respect her decision so she shld do the same for u next time (: