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Hi mga mommy ask ko lang sa mga solo parent. Is it ok lang ba na yung father ng baby ko eh umaalis kame, nagstay sa hotel and he is asking us to "do"? Or everyday nangangamusta samin? But still he doesnt want us to be complete. Tinatago nya kame sa social media or anyone.. Normal na lang ba talaga ginagawa yun sa panahon ngayon kahit walang commitment? Ako kase i just want us to be civil na lang with him. Kaso he supports us financially dahil stay at home mom ako. I dunno kung normal ba na ganito set up namin. I just wanted to move on na financial na lang support nya samin. Please share your current set up nyo sa father ng anak nyo so i can have ideas din. Thanks ?