Confused

Hello mga mommies. It's actually my experience that I am going to share with you. I'm 21 years old po and 4 months preggy actually turning 5 this July 10 but hindi pa alam nang mga parents ko. I know they will be disappointed pero di ko po alam gagawin ko. When it comes to money, wala po problema kasi ako merong trabaho tsaka yung hubby ko meron din, actually he's a seafarer kaya makakatustos sa pangangailangan ni baby. I'm the youngest among the four of us. Wala pang mga anak yung mga kapatid ko kahit yung panganay namin. And my father and mother are so strict, I know ikakahiya po nila ako kasi naman sabihin nila I'm to young tapos may baby na ako ni hindi pa nga nagkakaanak panganay namin. Baka malaman po nila at palayasin ako sa bahay. Hindi ko po alam gagawin ko. Advise po mga mommies lalo na po sa mga mommies na mga strict jan. Ano pong gagawin ko? Please help. Thank you.

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I'm 20 and hindi ko talaga alam kung when ako mag papacheck sa doctor kasi I feel troubled that I couldn't even tell my parents like some of you. My parents have some high expectations cause I'm still in college and my bf does have his business. I understand naman that he's busy but I feel neglected at times and I can't help but feel somewhat, sad. Don't get me wrong. I feel really happy for having this baby and I couldn't ask for more. I just didn't know kasi kung sino kakausapin at times like this, dahil hindi nga namin masabi sa parents namin eh. I just feel like... Parang ako lang mag isa eh. I hope you'd stay positive and stuff. Keep praying lang and everything will be owkay. Although I'm in this situation I'm starting a business kasi I don't wanna leave the rest sa bf ko.

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5y ago

Alam mo, no matter what we do kasi para iwasan na malaman ng parents natin wala tayong magagawa eh. Instead of prolonging everything, they deserve to know kasi talaga. At first, magagalit talaga sila but wala naman tayong magagawa dun eh. All we could do is to stand and take responsibility of our actions, let's trust God and His plans 😇