maintaining marriage is not easy. how do you all manage a hot-temper husband?

First, I think as a wife need to be more conscious and try to calm down as much as possible during argument. For me, I am more hot-tempered than my husband. He always so patience to handle my nuisance and temper. It takes 2 hands to clap and if both husband and wife are hot tempered, it will end up more unhappiness.