M i not right to celebrate my lo 1st bday since i did it on her 1st mth? My f mil says no pt doing since bby no memory plus aldy did her 1st mth liao.. Den my hub follow n agreed.. This is an ivf baby.. My precious lil baby.. I feel even not ivf dont our babies the most impt ones to us? m not gng to do it big coz i dun hv much money.. Just buffet n cake.. I dun uds y this f mil so kns!! My mummy say we shall just carry n do it n ignore the mil n hubby.. They dun1 is their problem, we as dil just inform.. That day come jiu come, no come jiu sua.. Wad u all think?