Give Up Or Fight?

This is long so please be patient. I dont need bashing, i need advice pls . Thanks I broke up ith my bf for 3 years kc lagi cya nambabae..what triggers me n paalisin n cya sa apartment (i transferred to a new apartment para lng sknya dhil wla parking sa dati q inuupahan. Even if doble ung cost ng rent) is bcoz he's cheating me with her friend.. Lhat hols ng expenses shoulder q dhil kumuha cya ng car and mas mlaki nmn daw sahod q. Mdami n nkakahuli sknla. He left the apartment ng march 21 before his bday ng 24th.. Nahuli q kc n nagpapa book n cya ng out of town ksama c frend. April 9 ng my mkilala aq n bago and due to peer pressure, nging bf q cya. Call it rebound, pero i need a distraction at that time. Kasamahan q kc sa ofc c ex bf and ung frend nya. After my ex knows my new relationship, nkikipagbalikan cya.. Kaso dahil sa ginawa nya skn, doubtful n q.. The day after nya magmakaawa, ginawa nila public ung relation nila sa ofc nmin which shocks everyone. April 29 ng mag positive ang PT q. I was confused kung sino ang tatay. We only had contact twice ni new bf unprotected pa.. Pero even sa ex q lagi kmi wla protection. May 17 ng ma confirm sa ultrasound na im 7weeks and 6 days preggy. LMP q is mar 28. Di q cya mconsider n period kc i only had 1 day na sobra hina pa which makes me think na implantation bleeding cya. After 2 weeks ng mlman ni new bf na preggy aq, nag disappear n cya tangay ilan gamit q. When i was almost 5months pregnant ni contact aq ni ex asking who is the father of the baby. I told him i was not sure. At that time, he presses na mlaki possibilities na cya ang tatay. Hinayaan q cya n samahan aq sa checkup and he started buying me milk and vits. Kaso all of a sudden nagbago attitude nya ng magreresign c gf nya sa ofc and cries a lot during those period. Until now, sila pa rn ng gf nya although bumalik cya sa apartment q kc suggestion daw ng babae. Pero lagi nman hinahatak ng babae kung saan c ex kya prang wla dn aq kasama. Graveyard shift ni ex and morning aq.. Every weekend magksama sila and obviously staying sa motel kc c gf nkatira sa parents ksama ung anak niya. Single mom c gf na mahilig kumabit sa may asawa. Kaya cgro di mabitawan ex q kc this time single ito. Although kmi p ng ex q noon. I decided to give way pero lagi umayaw ex q. Panu daw kung cya ang tatay.. Pero recentlywla n cya gana. Ni indi nga q masamhan sa pagbili ng gmit ni baby. Im 30 weeks pregnant and ayaw q mastress kya aq n bumibitaw. Magaling magpaawa ung gf nya and na mamanipulate cya. I dont have anyone n tutulong skn kya hinayaan q na bumalik c ex. Kaso wla p dn kc lagi nman cya andun sa gf nya. Mnsan nagaabot ng 2k o 3k lng skn. Ayaw q sna mastress pero eversince n nlman q n preggy aq, d q ngawa matuwa o ienjoy pregnancy q. Should i stick to my desisyon n kumalas sknla? O hayaan q n lng because i needed help and wla mgiging tatay c baby? Di rin tanggap ng ex q ung anak ng gf nya. Who do you think is the father? Doubtful n ngaun c ex kc sa ni ffeed sknya ng gf nya.. Pero ayaw dn nmn aq bitawan ng tuluyan. Thank you in advance.

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Hello ate. May big possibility na si new bf ang tatay ng baby mo since kailangan mo mag add ng 2 weeks from the date na na conceive ai baby. Example i 7 weeks and 6 days ang nagappear sa ultrasound mo, less mo ang 2 weeks dapat so it means 5 weeks ka palang talaga buntis. I experienced this kase, I made my ob explained it to my hubby since were both shocked ng sabihin niya kung ilang weeks na ang tummy ko since we both know the exact date at oras na naconceive si baby. Dapat 4 weeks palang siya but the ultrasound said na 6 weeks plus ilang days. Nakakatawa lang kasi hindi talaga ako nahiya na magtanong at ipa defend kay doc ang result since 1000% sure ako na sa kanya yun dahil siya lang nmn ang naging partner ko with that eversince. So baka kaya tumabang ang loob ni partner mo ay naisip din niya possibility na hnd siya ang father

Magbasa pa
2y ago

I doubt it. April 9 lng daw nakilala si new bf and if may nangyare sa knila that day, april 29 sya nag PT hindi pa madedetect ng PT ung almost 3 weeks. Dahil positive na sya ng 29 possible nyan sa ex nya pa un