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This is just solely my pov, we all have different bottom lines and acceptance. I feel it’s normal to watch rather than they find an actual human outside to satisfy their needs (likewise for females). My husband do watch it too when I’m not in the mood or not convenient (preg/period) and he’s quite transparent about this. However, it would be nice to let him know your concerns rather than bottling up or second guessing. Communication is important and you can also hear his pov.
Very timely, just saw a porn site open again on my hubbs phone yesterday. Caught him multiple times watching porn in the bathroom and masturbating. He always denies. We have been married for 9yrs and I don't remember he initates intimacy. Already told him about my POV but nothing happens. We have sex only 1-2x every 3-4moths. Feel so tired to always initiate yet still not satisfied whenever we have sex.
For most men, porn means nothing, just an outlet for them to find relief. Unless he's addicted and it's affecting his daily life and responsibilities, then I'll be concerned. In fact, if I'm not in the mood,I'll ask my hubs to go settle it himself haha.
So bad.. Scarly one day he go out find outside settle for him.. better view this with importance since he sound like he’s of higher sex drive
I will be upset too tbh as I also see it as betrayal. I would seek a good time to ask him about it and hope he doesn’t lie which would make the situation even worse.
The fact he search for porn means he has higher sex drive. He needs to release the hormones. I think it’s normal. He this type should be need sex every 2-3 days.
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