Sexual life

My hubby and i wasn’t active in sex for 2 years already. We conceived thru IVF, currently on my 2nd trim. and my sex drive have been quite high. I feel like im a useless wife in a way. My hubby have been watching porn to release it but to me i felt so useless and disappointed. I mean yes, he have the urge, but seeing him having porn to release his urge make me so useless. I just brust out into tears when he was away, and just feel everything so upstair down. i’ve the urge too, i’m a woman too.. but my hubby isn’t interested in me since years ago. i know it’s not right but i’ve been “texting” this guy before my pregnancy and once i know that im pregant, i stop meeting him but i still think of him everyday because we had sex. what should i do?

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Super Mum

Have you spoken to your husband about it? Is there a reason why he'd rather turn to porn than to be intimate with you? You really need to open up communication channels with your husband to try and figure things out. Seek professional help if needed. Jia you!

2y ago

we once talked about it. but it still the same, and he would say that we have no issue about anything. i just feel so useless…