husband watch porn is it ok?

It's completely understandable to feel hurt and betrayed upon discovering your husband watching porn, especially if it makes you question your own desirability and intimacy in the relationship. Communication is key in such situations. It's important to have an open and honest conversation with your husband to express your feelings and concerns. Try to understand his perspective as well, as there could be various reasons why he turned to porn. It's crucial to discuss boundaries, expectations, and what both of you consider acceptable behavior in the relationship. Remember that watching porn doesn't necessarily mean he is dissatisfied with you; it could be a personal habit or a way to fulfill certain desires. Suggest seeking couples therapy or counseling to work through these issues together in a safe and supportive environment. Ultimately, rebuilding trust and understanding each other's needs is essential for a healthy and fulfilling relationship. https://invl.io/cll6she

I feel you. mine watches too. there's nth wrong w our marriage. we're still happily married for 10 yrs but we've been tgt for 15yrs. I was mad when I first caught him watching porn. though he apologised every single time I caught him n promised to stop but he didn't. its been many yrs alr. I know he's still watching it as I look through his phone history. he did not clear his history pages. I'm used to it now since it didn't hurt our marriage. maybe it's just a man thing. he's a loving husband n father to our 6 children n other than working, he only spent his time w us so I thought I'd let go on this porn issue. I'm not sure how you'll deal w this but yup, that's wad I did.

I feel u. I caught my hubs few mths post miscarriage and took a long time to get over it. I can’t describe in words the betrayal and anger and pain I felt. We did discuss and he apologised and agreed it was wrong but depending on their personality. Mine wld not be able to explain why he do what he do. Even after apology I don think I will ever get over it tbh but I know I have to forgive for the sake of my kids and also God has likewise forgave us our wrong doings. I can only say humanly it’s difficult but God enables. Sending hugs! When u forgive it sets ur heart free to love and parent your children. Jia you mummy. Protect ur marriage.

Well I find it normal to watch porn, one day when I know he’s watching porn and he did explain to me that he didn’t want to disturb me resting as he scare that I’m tired. He just want to release some stress from it, so I understand how he feels. Just let them be lo, it’s better than they go out and find other girl/women to release their needs/stress. Sometimes when I caught him watching porn, I will say things like: Don’t think I don’t know what you doing arh! Then both of us went laughing so loud, I feel it’s about how you going to think of it. Try to think positive! 🙏🏻

its normal to feel how u felt but maybe you want to take a look at the root of the incident? is it your intimacy life got a little too mundane? honestly, initimacy is a 2 way street.. sometimes as a wife spicing up that part of the relationship takes effort too especially when marriage is long.. couples tend to forget both play a part. man aint really verbal ppl who will talk abt their needs unlike females 😅 on a fun side, u can get a vibrator to spite him back or it can be a new thing to spice up the bedroom 😉 ATB!

relax!, it is not wrong you feel so but it is not weirdo for him also with this. one day i caught my husband in toilet despite the time i was 6 months pregnant, i made as a joke to him since then, one time i asked him to watch together and we laugh on that instead of arguing. By naturally, almost men they watched porn before us come into their lives. anyway Now we have baby, we have manythings to focus, suddenly he forgot about that automatically and never seen him do again😅, god bless dear 😊

I'm sorry that u feel that way. for me I feel perfectly fine with it, my ex husband is a porn addict n I always just leave him be, watching n doing what they will do. Whereas my current husband will feel that it's wrong to watch porn, he will feel that he's betraying me in a way?? So he totally don't watch it, but will come to me when he needs it. I feel as long as they don't watch sg porn is fine 😂 Cause u won't know ma... later they suddenly wanna cheat???? then go find the sg girl in the porn??

For me, I’m okay with my husband watching porn because after all they are guys… you can try to initiate intimacy with him instead of him doing it. However this is up to your comfort level. If you are not comfortable with it, do have a talk with him. Communication is important for a couple to keep the relationship going.

it's totally normal for men to watch porn every now and then. many articles online say the same so please don't fight with him over it especially if he does fulfill his other duties as a husband. It's better for him to watch porn rather than him finding other women outside to satisfy his needs

It’s a no for me too. If a man loves and values you, he doesn’t need to satisfy his lust outside of you/the marriage. Perhaps you can share with him how you feel when he watches porn, and ask him how he will feel if he is in your shoes.