he dont love me anymore?

hello ladies.. just want to rant, please feel free to give your opinions or advices my husband said he has no interest in talking to me because i always look moody and i noticed he treats me and his close friend's wife differently...his attitude..the way he messaged her..the way he looked at her.. when i asked him about it he said because she treated him nice in the past and even now.. i got offended immediately, i broke my previous engagement just to be with him..i quarreled with my family because of this... i gave birth to his child... this is not nice? recently i have initiating to make love but he keeps telling me he have no feel.. is he just not interested in me anymore? we havent talk for more 10 sentences for the past 3 days and we have no intimancy regardless physically or emotionally.. we have been quarreling ever since the birth of baby and he has been siding with his parents.. whenever i rant to him about letting my 3 month baby watch tv or my FIL wants to poke the teat with needle..my husband never help. is he just not interested in me anymore?? or simply tired? what should i do? my mind is full of negative thoughts, that i should leave and find someone else better as this is not the marriage life i want to continue for the rest of my life.. if i can find someone else better and fill up the things my current one couldnt fulfill isnt it better?

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Sorry to hear that. You have shared your feelings and even initiated to make with him but he rejected and said negative words. You said he treats you and his close friend's wife differently, the messages, way looking at her etc and he came into your life when you were engaged. I am sorry to say it seems that he likes someone in relationships, hope I am wrong. There must be a limit when one is married. You may know him better and his past. Think he is not open to counseling to savage the marriage. If he is willing, then go for it. You may want to dress up and make yourself look attractive, see what is his response. However, even if he is attracted, you have to judge whether is love or lust. Wish you happy. Take care. 🌈💪

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