Kapag nagkatampuhan kayong mag-asawa, nagbabati ba agad kayo within the day or kinabukasan pa or more days?

Nung bagong kasal pa lang kami, nagagawa namin magbati before matulog. We made it a point to patch things up before sleeping but as years go by, tumatagal na ng isang araw, tatlong araw, hanggang 1 week ata. And sometimes, he doesn't want to talk about it anymore. Getting worse, through the years.