Sleep trainings by letting LO cry until they sleep themselves

Hi I’ve heard of parents sleep training their LO by letting them cry if they wake up in the middle of the night until they sleep themselves... but I also read in articles from experts saying we shouldn’t ignore a baby crying as this might build up insecurity to baby. I’m abit confuse as to what works cos I’ve been following the expert and it seems now the baby know how to use crying to get attention every time.. he is 11 months old. Any sharing views and experience on this?

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Do whatever that u can accept, there is no one size fits all. Personally I didn't always pick them up immediately, usually I try to sense why they cry and if legit like there was a thunderstorm that shook them awake, of cos will carry. So just go with your gut feel