Advice???

Im scared I might be pregnant at age 20, Im currently employed and will be a freshmen BSIT this coming school year. I have a lot of dreams, and I still want to achieve so much before having a baby. But Im suspecting I am pregnant and Im so scared for our future. PS Dont get mad. If I am preggy, I am keeping the baby. Point is I am scared of the future for my baby. PPS. If youre telling me na dapat naisip ko na siya before having sex, I did pero hirap pigilan, dahil we live together and sleep together and we eat together, and we are NORMAL people with Carnal Desires. So I am sorry to disappoint you, but mahirap pigilan. PPPS. Protection? Yes. Apparently, may chance padin even with.

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As a doctor, this is my advice: Please confirm first if you are pregnant. Yung pee stick lang is very accurate if used as early as your missed menses. Scenario 1: you are NOT pregnant, then you could stop worrying, and maybe plan for your most suitable form of CONTRACEPTION with your health care provider (even if you are NOT YET planning to have kids, consult your OBGyne of choice to be better guided). There are plenty of contraceptive choices this day and age to choose from depending on your lifestyle so your PPPS is NOT an excuse. Scenario 2: You are pregnant. Advice is still consult your OBGyne of choice for prenatal and the rest that will follow. In this case, this is not YOUR life alone, but your baby's as well. The goal is to ensure a healthy pregnancy as much as possible and pray for a healthy baby. And pray always. Bottom line is, consult your doctor. Whatever happens, God is the best planner and trust in HIM.

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Ako nagstop din second sem.. this year.. BSIT din course ko.. Kasi buntis ako and my parents were very dissapointed not just them but the whole family.. then ung father Ng baby ko d pa magsuporta iniwan Lang din ako sa ere actually I tried to abort but malakas kapit Ng baby ko like she's trying to say na she wants to live and a sign nrin Kay papa God na she's a blessing na dumating skin kht sa alanganin n panahon na Kung San walang wLa ako and nung nlaman na Ng parents ko I decided to continue Kasi it's a big sin Rin kaya nag aalanganin ako when I tried and thankfully I give birth to a healthy baby big girl 😊💕.. but kahit na galit parents ko skin they still supported me pra sa baby ko.. Di ko alam Kung kelan ulit ako makapag aral.. but I do anything para Rin sa future Ng anak ko tatagan Lang po loob and pray Kay papa God po 😊

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5y ago

WOW, YOU ARE SO STRONG!! THANK YOU FOR INSPIRING ME!!!

Sa una lang po yan, ganyan din ako nong nalaman kong buntis ako 18 years old turning 19 first year college pa. Ako ang inaasahan ng papa ko na makapagtapos ng pag aaral dahil mga kapatid ko, may sariling pamilya na din. Ako nalang yung natirang nag aaral sa amin ng mga kapatid ko. And when my father found out that i was pregnant, di na nya ako binigyan ng pera (buti walang pasok😆) na disappoint sya saken kasi nag promise ako na magtatapos. Di na nya ako chinachat (OFW sya, kaya through chat lang communication namen) sobrang nasaktan sya nung time na nalaman nya yun, puro daw sya inom doon sa abroad di na nagtrabaho ng ilang araw. Trust me Sis, sa una lang ang takot, pag ma feel mo na yung pitik nya sa puson mo, pag ma feel mo na yung little kicks nya yung takot na nafefeel mo mapapalitan ng pagmamahal sa anak mo ❤

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Your baby is a blessing,he is given because God wanted it to. Your future and his future will be done according to His plans,just trust Him and give all the love to your upcoming blessing. I was a 5th year VetMed student when I got pregnant with my first born,1 year na lang gragraduate na sana. But I had no regrets,now I have an awesome daughter who had become my world.I had been my husband's supporter and cheerer until he finished his Masters Degree and is now employed in a good paying job. And soon we will be having another blessing. Always remember,sometimes success is not measured in the things that you have achieved but on the happiness that you will be able to gain and the love that you are receiving. Trust Him and His plans. Soon you'll realize that great things are laid out for you. ❤

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There’s nothing wrong of having a baby first. Ang importante is yung determination mo. Llo na ngayon, mas gaganahan ka to achieve your dreams kasi you have a little one in there hoping and rooting for you too. Yung iba, mas pinili unahin ang career or dreams , ngayon nagagahol na sila sa time kasi minsan, hindi makabuo or what. God given you a blessing kasi alam niyang kaya mo. Kaya mo yan. Kami ng husband ko, 23 years old ako kinasal. Balak namin magtravel muna, mag ipon para magkabahay, pero di pa namin nagagawa yun lahat, nabiyayaan na kami. Currently 34weeks preggers. Walang pagsisising nangyari. We can travel with our little one. We can still save for our future house. It’s a matter of determination and grit to do so.

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5y ago

THANK YOU, YOU ARE A DARLING

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I got pregnant at 15, incoming college frosh. Sa sobrang takot ko magalit family ko sa'kin, tinago ko. Ang ending? Pinaanak ko sarili ko sa banyo, kasi hindi nila alam na kabuwanan ko na. Pero nung nakita nila si baby, wala akong nakitang bahid nung kinakatakutan ko. Nagdrop out ako, after one year, balik eskwela, family ko lang katuwang ko sa pag-aalaga kasi nag-aaral pa rin noon yung partner ko. Ngayon, napag-aaral na namin sa private school yung anak namin, licensed professional teacher na ako, and I'm 14 weeks pregnant sa 2nd baby namin. You have to face the consequences of your actions.Never think of a child as a hindrance. Blessing sila, unplanned, maybe, but unwanted, never.

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5y ago

Thank You!!!

I'm 19. A student. And yes, nahinto ako sa pag aaral because I'm currently pregnant. Yes, alam ko yung feeling na may mga pangarap pa. Pero the best thing to do? isama mo yang little blessing mo sa mga pangarap mo. I know it's hard. It will be so hard. The right come will come, and masasabi mo hindi pa huli ang lahat para tuparin ang mga pangarap mo, and this time meron ka pang magiging inspiration, yung anak mo. Listen, if it's positive, please do not kill it. DO NOT HAVE AN ABORTION. It's a blessing in disguise. Trust yourself, you can be a successful career woman, and at the same time a successful mom to your child. Never loose hope. Dream bigger.

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5y ago

SERIOUSLY, YOURE A SWEETHEART!! THANK YOU SO MUCH

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20 y/o din ako now pero kasal na kami at 6mos preggy nako. Nung una natakot din ako kung kaya kona ba? O kaya naba namin. Natakot din ako sa sasabihin ng ibang tao lalo na ng magulang ko! Pero Nilakasan ko loob ko di ako iniwan ng asawa ko sa kabila ng mga takot ko. Kagaya mo madami din akong pangarap pero di naman to hadlang para dimo matupad lahat yon! Instead? Gawin mong inspiration yung baby mo para mas lalo kang mamotivate na abutin mga pangarap mo. Wag kang papadala sa takot mo kase walang manyayare kung matatakot ka nalang ng matatakot! Swerte ko nalang din kasi may mister akong gumagabay sakin para maging better akong tao sa ngayon. Pray lang momsh kaya moyan 😘

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I got pregnant when I was 19 years old.. after that ndi ngng hindrance ang pgkkrn ko ng baby pra ndi mka graduate... mhrap lalo na kng wlng mag aalaga sa baby mo.. buti kmi mbait MIL ko lgi sya nka support sa amin..dumating un time masaya na kmi ni hubby sa tinapay sa bakery plus un hotdog at kikiam sa labas... Nag sstudy pdn ksi husbnd ko bsta mhrap na ok din ksi ndi kmi pinabayaan ng MIL ko.. mlpt nq mag grad 3rd year college nbuntis uli aq pero pinilit kpa din mkpg aral.. mhrap pero mggng inspiration mo baby mo pra maabot mo un mga gusto mo...

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Hi. I'm a single parent. Don't be scared. sa umpisa lang yan. im hella scared too . graduate nako. have a stable job. pero takot parin ako. all of us natakot. pero when the baby's out. makikita mo sarili mo na may bagong bukas na binibigay sayo ni baby. Lalo akong na inspire na ayusin buhay ko. Na mas maging healthy at magpakabait. 😊 kasi may Little angel na magmamahal sayo. I have 3 degrees. Work in one of the boom restau. in manila. pero iniwan ko un. and start a new life in are province. 😊♥️ Enjoy the pregnancy stage .

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