Advice???

Im scared I might be pregnant at age 20, Im currently employed and will be a freshmen BSIT this coming school year. I have a lot of dreams, and I still want to achieve so much before having a baby. But Im suspecting I am pregnant and Im so scared for our future. PS Dont get mad. If I am preggy, I am keeping the baby. Point is I am scared of the future for my baby. PPS. If youre telling me na dapat naisip ko na siya before having sex, I did pero hirap pigilan, dahil we live together and sleep together and we eat together, and we are NORMAL people with Carnal Desires. So I am sorry to disappoint you, but mahirap pigilan. PPPS. Protection? Yes. Apparently, may chance padin even with.

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As a doctor, this is my advice: Please confirm first if you are pregnant. Yung pee stick lang is very accurate if used as early as your missed menses. Scenario 1: you are NOT pregnant, then you could stop worrying, and maybe plan for your most suitable form of CONTRACEPTION with your health care provider (even if you are NOT YET planning to have kids, consult your OBGyne of choice to be better guided). There are plenty of contraceptive choices this day and age to choose from depending on your lifestyle so your PPPS is NOT an excuse. Scenario 2: You are pregnant. Advice is still consult your OBGyne of choice for prenatal and the rest that will follow. In this case, this is not YOUR life alone, but your baby's as well. The goal is to ensure a healthy pregnancy as much as possible and pray for a healthy baby. And pray always. Bottom line is, consult your doctor. Whatever happens, God is the best planner and trust in HIM.

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