hi all, im new here.. i have some qns regards to my 26 months.. is it a must to discipline ur child to really listen to ur every word?? my 26 month cant speak full language yet.. he only say 'what is this' best.. example: last weekend we having staycation with family and he's been getting into fights with the youngest cousin.. he will cry without stopping when i said no to him.. i dont really beat him but last weekend, i beat him the most which i really dont want to.. i seldom use cane too.. and when the youngest cousin wants to play his scooter, he defend and cry again, but the youngest cousin also got wrong as she snatch while my son is holding it.. can someone tell me how old does they understand what we saying? currently, im preg with 2nd child @ 26 weeks.. im afraid i will breakdown if he wont stop crying.. he doesnt know how to stop, he just go on and on.. thanks.. And to add: recently i m super stressful about finance.. i take back home less than 1.4k.. i m going to change job but is until end of the year then can change as im expecting now.. i keep on feeling to stop work and stay home with my tod until i give birth.. but i cant.. i dont know what is wrong with me recently.. i feel like breaking down but no one understand.. they only will say is my own fault..

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there is something really wrong here, in terms of your emotional and stress levels. i don't understand the use of words and actions such as 'beating' and 'cane' being used for a 26 month old baby. you really will have to take a call and get your life sorted. if you are so stressed and hassled, please get help and maybe stay with your parents who can help ease your pressure. whatever problem you are going through, you are the adult and have to handle it, it is not fair to put your 26 month through it. and now that you are again pregnant, you are not just harming your toddler but also affecting your unborn baby's health. please take proper rest and care and ask your family to help.

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