I think u should stop forcing/expecting ur firstborn into being excited. 3.5yrs still young, dont know anything yet especially about being an older sibling. and dont show you’re upset that she react this way. Of course she will be jealous. maybe u can let ur lo play with baby dolls and teach ur lo how to interact and care for baby. Or when see other ppl baby show her how to be friendly / play with babies.
So is it 3.5 years or 1 is 3 yrs old the other is 5 years old. Im kinda confused but i shall assume is just one child only. Try to correct her behaviour before baby come out and once delivered please monitor your eldest child whenever she around the baby.
I never had this problem but try making more exciting by buying toys or things they like and try say “it’s from baby bro/sis” maybe they will change they mind
You can a book to talk abt welcoming another baby to the family or I am a big sister, it might help to show her visually what to expect. Hope it helps!
just continue to show her all the love and affection tell her its ok to have sibblings and they will enjoy each other company ones the baby comes.
i actually showered more care and concern on my firstborn so he never feels left out...
is your firstborn twins or triplets? why are you using "THEY" "THEIR" and "THEM"? 😱
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