I'm a first time mom, i still live in my parents house with my husband. Not because we cannot afford to live on our own, but my father don't want us to leave yet, because he's still fond of my 2 months baby boy. Please bear with me kasi di ko na alam gagawin ko. I have 3 sisters one of them is my sis in-law and 2 bro's. Number 1 concern: SMOKING! 4 people in our house are smoking, they smoke outside basta malayo kay baby. BUT! After they smoke hindi man lang sila nag papalit ng damit pag hahawak kay baby! And even mag alcohol! Number 2: HYGIENE My number 3 sister, has halitosis (i think) super bad breath. She's kissing ny baby all over his face (the gigil type) and pag kinakausap niya ang lapit! Her smell stinks also because, she's the kind of girl who keeps repeating her clothes without washing it! Yung tipong nagamit mo na napa bangohan mo na, tas ganon ulit. And oh! She's too lazy to shower sometimes and even mag tooth brush. Number 3: CAUGHT KISSING MY BABY ON HIS LIPS AND ALWAYS WAKING HIM UP My sis in-law, she's super fond of my baby, always spoiling him with clothes and baby stuff. My concern is just i always caught her kissing my baby on his lips (pag nang gigigil siya) to think na she's the one who sent me a blog about kissing babies particularly in lips are quite dangerous to babies health. And also when my baby is asleep, when she come home from work, kinukuha niya anak ko kahit naka latch pa sakin, or tulog!

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You have your right if you want to separate anyway you can afford to be on your own. If it is for the good of your baby and the three of you as a family then go on. your father can visit you anytime.